本书将社交困境分为自我认识困境、坐失良机困境、误解矛盾困境、冷漠麻木困境、资源浪费困境、做人做事困境、不善合作困境、患得患失困境、不谙世故困境、形象卑琐困境、品位低下困境等十六种困境。以生动活动的事例展开作者对论点的议论，夹叙夹议，浅显易懂，便于读者学习社交之道。( This book divides social contact dilemma into sixteen kinds of dilemmas, namely dilemmas in self-awareness, losing good opportunity, misunderstanding and contradiction, indifference and numbness, wasting of resources, being a person and doing something, being bad at cooperating, worrying about personal gains and losses, knowing the world as little, having a mean-looking image and having low-grade taste, etc. This author discusses the thesis by lively and vivid examples, narrates with comments and explains them clearly and easily, so that the readers can learn the ways of social contact. )