李思坤在书中与读者分享了自己心灵成长的经验，而且为走在身心灵成长道路上的人，尤其是女性，呈现出了一张如何寻找爱的地图。我们从小被教育要无私，要去爱别人，可是有99.9%的人不知道什么是真正的爱，我们有的只是一堆责任、义务与标准。其实，爱应该是合一，在那里，没有分别，只有融合；在那里，没有痛苦，只有爱！ 李思坤说，要达到合一的境界，就要从能量开始着手转化，达到与宇宙的联接。而要想我们的能量变得纯净，我们每一个“身体”都要被净化，即对应身体中7个脉轮的不同生命向度能够保持敞开和流动。 李思坤向读者介绍了自己的经验：通过静心、呼吸、“三字经”，以及独特而有效的昆达里尼瑜伽一步步消除负面能量、接纳自我，进而获得自由、神性，达到合一。那时，我们就会变成一个“全然”的人，一个拥有圆满关系的人，一个充满爱的人。 （ Li Sikun has shared his experience of spiritual growth with readers in book and shown the map of way to love for people who are walking on the way to spiritual growth especially for female. From childhood, we was taught to be selfless and love others, however, 99.9% of us do not know what the true love is. What we have is a lot of responsibilities, obligations and standards. In fact, love shall be syncretic. Where there is only combination rather than difference and there is only love rather than pain. Li Sikun said that if you want to reach into syncretic state, you shall start from energy transformation to realize the connection with universe. If we want to make our energies pure, our every “body” shall be purified, namely the different life dimensions of seven chakras corresponding to body shall remain open and flow. Li Sikun has introduced his experience to readers: remove the negative energy and accept ourselves step by step with meditation, breathing, "Three Character Scripture" and the unique and effective Kundalini Yoga to obtain freedom and divinity so that combination can be reached. At that time, we will become the “complete” people who have the complete relations and are filled with love. )