无论干什么，每个人都希望自己成功，希望尽量避免失败或走弯路。许多人总是把活得很心累、活得很窝囊、活得很贫穷的主要原因归结为外界的客观影响，却从来没有审视过自己生活心态的好坏，面对人生失败的困境，屡遭挫折煎熬，丧魂落魄的无助，往往推诿为没有出身于一个好的家庭，没有考上一所好的大学，没有适合自己的一个好工作。( Whatever you do, you want to be successful and hope to avoid failures or detouring as much as possible. Some people always say life is hard and unsatisfactory and think objective influence from the outside shall be blamed. But they never review their life attitudes. Faced with dilemma of life failure, continuous frustrations and no assistance, they always complain lack of decent family, good university education and appropriate job. )