Nowadays, women that pass the fateful 'big four-oh' appear, often, more self-assured than younger ones for some aspects of life (such as career and relationships) but, basically, a widespread fear persists: getting old. Some of us are scared of the body ageing, others are more afraid of mind senescence. These anxieties as we age, often can affect the ability to manage family, affections and work. But, even worse, is when, looking back, we realize that we are living the someone else's life, often different and not at all similar to the life that we dreamed.Often we realize that the years have passed and that we still want to achieve so much in our lives, regretting what we cannot have or do.Likely, but nothing is lost: we can change and give up our monotonous life and build a new and more interesting one.I did it. Do you want to know how? Read this 'manual' and find out it.