Getting divorced is almost never easy, but this practical, plain-English guide helps you get through the proceedings with a minimum of stress and expense. It shows you the latest changes in collaborative divorces, common law, and same-sex marriages, and even custody law-and how to work out the terms so you can begin building a fulfilling post-divorce life. ● Understand the divorce process review the key issues and decisions, get your finances in order, and file the petition ● Decide whether divorce is the best option-weigh the pros and cons of separation, consider marriage counseling, and learn about annulments ● Put things in motion-initiate the proceedings, break the news to your spouse and children, and deal with your emotions ● Make important and difficult decisions-divide your assets and debts, make a case for spousal support, and get the best custody arrangement for your children ● Protect yourself-plan for life after divorce, safeguard your money, and take action if things turn unfriendly or dangerous ● Avoid a divorce trial-negotiate your own divorce, seek help from an attorney, and work with a mediator