Who can say who a person should or shouldn't love? HA, HA...HAH! is a compilation of poems written over many years. The author shares moments of questioning anguish and exquisite joy as she guides us through a timeline of involvement with her twin flame. That she is a woman - and he, a gay man, adds an unconventional element to the mixture. Stir substance abuse and health issues into this funny love story, and ....it gets complicated.